They say the best way to cure yourself of any disease is to smile, and very much I'm inclined to agree. I like people who smile, and people who's smile radiate warmth and genuine joy for no reason. It's as if the when they came to the world they knew eventually everything would be alright, despite how screwed everything is now.

And despite how gloomy a day is, I find myself helplessly smiling too when a pretty girl comes along and smiles at me. I mean, no point for me to not to return the favor, eh?

Hahaha shit, that sounds very biased of me, eh? But trust me, everyone's biased so I don't see why I can't be frank and admit it. I'll be a hypocrite if I say beauty doesn't matter when in fact I stare at pretty girls all the time. (pretty guys once in a while) ><

Now, onto the main thing I wanted to write about today.

Have others told you before, 'I understand how you feel'?
Most likely somewhere in your life someone said that before.

We are all individuals, all living separate lives, although at times our lives may be similar, and our thinking at times may be highly alike, and under certain circumstances both of you will act in similar ways.

However, as said, we are different for all that we are alike. No one can ever understand how you feel, the extent of the impact on your conscience, the pain you feel, where you feel it, how it manifests and affects you.

We, as a person, can never hope to grasp the extent of another person's pain, another person's joy, another person's loneliness, another person's misery. All we can do, is sympathize and hope somehow they find their way out of their own emotional labyrinth.

On the topic of labyrinths, I believe emotional problems is like being in a labyrinth. Speaking to your friends and family about the problem is like speaking to a ghost, it makes you feel better, it makes you feel more confident, but if you don't do anything, you're still stuck inside the maze.

As much as I'm inclined to force the solution I think it's logical onto a person, often in the areas of emotions, logical rules do not apply, and over time I think abstaining from advice is becoming the best way to assist them.

People generally need an outlet for their pent up emotions, and they want a place to express it. They frankly do not want advice, nor are they looking for it. People who need advice don't want it, and people who don't need advice want it for future use!

So my suggestion, again, it's a suggestion, you just keep those wise ideas to yourself and let them keep talking. Chances are after a while they'll know what's the right thing to do. After all, it's like a moral dilemma, we cannot decide what is right for them, in their eyes. Decisions made should reflect the personality of the person who made them, it is how as a person, they develop.

(i think i said this before a long time ago, i sometimes should consider writing a book)

Evolution at times, for us as persons, is making decisions, and like law, it becomes a base for future decisions. The past is where we look for guidance to face the present, and cumulatively these decisions become our future.

I'm writing jargon again.
When emotions run high, I'm inspired. Thank you for reading.